Secrets to Surviving Infidelity
Now completely updated! A compassionate guide to help couples survive infidelity and improve their relationship.When a couple's trust is shattered by infidelity, healing may seem beyond reach--but it doesn't have to be. This second edition of Secrets to Surviving Infidelity offers a compassionate and practical roadmap toward recovery and reconnection. Through humane insights and step-by-step strategies, Dr. Scott Haltzman, a psychiatrist and marriage educator, shares how to overcome the pain of betrayal and strengthen relationships in its wake. Whether you are the wronged partner, the one who strayed, or a therapist navigating your clients' infidelity, this book serves as an essential guide to the intricacies of infidelity--from the initial shock and heartache to the complex process of rebuilding trust. This second edition includes new information on: - The evolving definitions of marriage and commitment, with updated language to include those who are in unmarried, committed relationships.- Relationship challenges unique to the LGBTQ+ community - Gender and sex issues - The neuroscience of infidelity and "flame addiction" - Strategies for conflict managementDr. Haltzman combines real-life stories with robust research to illuminate the types of infidelity, the varied motivations behind affairs, and their impacts on relationships. He provides clear guidance on how to end an affair, how to cope with feelings of anger and grief, and how to foster forgiveness and healing. This book can also serve as a preventive tool to explore and strengthen bonds to make relationships affair-resistant. Secrets to Surviving Infidelity is a lifeline for those desperate to recover and safeguard their relationships.
Marriage after Retirement
"Marriage After Retirement: 25 Questions to Ask and Answer Before You Marry" isn't just a book-it's your indispensable companion as you embark on the journey of marriage in your golden years. Authored by Amy Rose Herrick, ChFC, this insightful guide is your roadmap to navigating the complexities of marriage after retirement, ensuring a foundation that's as solid as it is fulfilling.Thoughtfully organized into nine chapters, each one carefully crafted to address crucial aspects of marital life, this book empowers you and your partner to delve deeper, discuss openly, and understand each other on a profound level to support you in your desire for a fulfilling, life long, successful marriage.Organized into nine thoughtfully curated chapters, each addressing crucial aspects of marital life, this book empowers couples to explore, discuss, and understand each other on a deeper level."Marriage After Retirement" is not just a book; it's a roadmap for building a strong and enduring partnership in your senior years. Whether you're considering a first marriage, remarriage or have already made the commitment, this book equips you with the tools and insights to navigate the joys and challenges of married life after retirement with confidence and clarity.Don't miss out on this opportunity to transform your life! Secure your copy now and gain access to the free audio version using the link provided within. Start your journey towards positive change today!
No Fault
A MOST ANTICIPATED BOOK OF 2025: Vogue, Vulture, Bustle, Lit Hub "Enigmatic, opalescent, so precise." --Jia Tolentino An intimate and candid account of one of the most romantic and revolutionary of relationships: divorce Divorce was everything for Haley Mlotek. As a child, she listened to her twice-divorced grandmother tell stories about her "husbands." As a pre-teen, she answered the phones for her mother's mediation and marriage counseling practice and typed out the paperwork for couples in the process of leaving each other. She grew up with the sense that divorce was an outcome to both resist and desire, an ordeal that promised something better on the other side of something bad. But when she herself went on to marry--and then divorce--the man she had been with for twelve years, suddenly, she had to reconsider her generation's inherited understanding of the institution. Deftly combining her personal story with wry, searching social and literary exploration, No Fault is a deeply felt and radiant account of 21st century divorce--the remarkably common and seemingly singular experience, and what it reveals about our society and our desires for family, love, and friendship. Mlotek asks profound questions about what divorce should be, who it is for, and why the institution of marriage maintains its power, all while charting a poignant and cathartic journey away from her own marriage towards an unknown future. Brilliant, funny, and unflinchingly honest, No Fault is a kaleidoscopic look at marriage, secrets, ambitions, and what it means to love and live with uncertainty, betrayal, and hope.
How to Be Dateable
Does dating feel like an endless maze with no way out? Break free from the traps of modern dating and learn how to take control of your love life in this actionable, compassionate guide that will help you find your person and become your most dateable self. As creators and hosts of the hit dating podcast Dateable, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu have made breaking down the nuances of the ever-evolving dating world, and empowering the people within it, their purpose and passion. Drawing on a decade's worth of research from speaking to thousands of daters and world-renowned experts, Julie and Yue have come to realize that everyone is dateable--it's just the modern dating norms that keep us from falling in love. Contrary to other dating books, How to Be Dateable isn't a playbook of rules to follow or methods to hack your love life. But it will help you identify your dating strong suits and what's getting in your way. To personalize your reading experience, start off with a quiz that reveals your dating archetype (are you an Achiever, Dreamer, Energizer, Maverick, or Thinker?). Then, you'll learn how to break free from the traps that continue to get in your way (The Expectation of Love on Demand, Settling Paradox, Validation Trap, and Relationship Chicken) and how to clear your path to love. Within the book, there are case studies, personal anecdotes, exercises, and self-assuring mantras designed to help you understand your core strengths, date on your terms, and find the relationship that's right for you. Written with the knowledge of experts and the warmth of a wise best friend, How to Be Dateable will help you create a dating life filled with joy, fulfillment, extraordinary connections, and love.
Vows
From the bestselling author of Home Comforts comes the "timely" (The New Yorker), "fascinating, and morally serious," (The Wall Street Journal) story of our wedding vows--what they mean and why they still matter. In the West, marrying is so thoroughly identified with ceremonial promises that "taking vows" is a synonym for getting married. So, it's a surprise to realize that this custom is actually a historical and anthropological oddity. Most of the world, for most of history, married without making promises. And there's a reason for that. Marriage by vow presupposes free choice, and free choice makes a love-match possible. It is a very modern arrangement. Vows is both a moving memoir of two marriages and an "illuminating" (Publishers Weekly, starred review) meditation on marriage itself. Cheryl Mendelson tackles the sociology of commitment through our most traditional promises and shows why they endure. In considering the kind of marriage these vows entail, she helps answer some of life's most urgent and personal questions: Could I, would I, or should I make these promises to someone? Using history and literature, the book describes the parameters of the behavior that traditional vows promise and, in doing so, answers a whole series of other questions: Why did wedding-by-vow arise only in the West? Why are they recited in weddings around the world today? Why have these vows lasted for nearly a thousand years? Why does the kind of marriage promised in the vows survive?
Knowing Your Lesbian Life Partner
"Knowing Your Lesbian Life Partner: 25 Questions to Ask and Answer for Lesbian Couples in Their First Long-Term Relationship" is not just another book-it is your indispensable guide to laying the foundation for a love that lasts.This insightful masterpiece provides more than just advice; it is your roadmap to navigating the complexities of your first long-term relationship with grace and understanding.Structured into nine enlightening chapters, each one meticulously crafted to address essential aspects of lesbian relationships, this book is your key to unlocking deeper connections and fostering enduring intimacy for a successful, supportive, and enduring marriage."Knowing Your Lesbian Life Partner" is not just a book; it is a tool for building a strong and enduring partnership.Whether you are embarking on your first long-term relationship or seeking to deepen an existing one, this book empowers you to ask the right questions and embark on a journey of love, growth, and mutual understanding together.Do not miss this opportunity to transform your life!Secure your copy now and gain access to the free audio version using the link provided within.
Mother-Daughter Book Club Guide
Mother-Daughter Book Club Made Easy! Build community and connection while bonding over books! Each guide includes: A curated selection of engaging books in several genres: historical fiction, contemporary, fantasy, nonfiction, classic, & graphic novels Discussion questions to spark meaningful conversationSnack and activity ideas to enhance the experienceFun facts & planning sheets for easy, stress-free book club prep! Perfect for book-loving moms who want to share their love of reading with their daughters-and could use some help! Titles Included: The True Confessions of Charlotte Doyle by Avi Inside Out and Back Again by Thanhhá LaiOut of My Mind by Sharon M. DraperThree Times Lucky by Sheila TurnageSmile by Raina TelgemeierPrincess Academy by Shannon HaleWhere the Mountain Meets the Moon by Grace Lin Keeper of the Lost Cities by Shannon Messenger Anne of Green Gables by L. M. Montgomery Bridge to Terabithia by Katherine PatersonI am Malala: How One Girl Stood Up for Education and Changed the World by Malala Yousafzai Yummy: A History of Desserts by Victoria Elliott
40 Things I Want to Do with You Forever
The Ultimate Gift for Couples: A Celebration of Love, Laughter, and Lifelong MemoriesImagine a book that feels like a love letter-a beautifully crafted, cool, full-color keepsake that turns shared moments into unforgettable adventures. "40 Things I Always Want to Do with You Forever" is an invitation to deepen your connection, nurture your love, and create the kind of memories that will make your hearts race for years to come.Inside these pages, you'll find 40 meaningful plans designed to bring you closer, whether it's simple joys like sharing a sunset or spontaneous getaways to explore new horizons. Every idea is infused with the magic of togetherness, making this book the ultimate toolkit for love, connection, and laughter.Why this book will melt your heart: Romantic Inspiration: Discover ideas for date nights, adventures, and cozy moments you'll cherish forever.Timeless Design: With its stunning full-color pages and elegant layout, it's as beautiful as the love it celebrates.Made for Gifting: Perfect for anniversaries, Valentine's Day, weddings, birthdays, or just to say, "I love you."This isn't just a gift-it's a promise. A promise to dream together, laugh together, and always find time for one another, no matter where life takes you.Whether you're celebrating years of love or sparking something new, "40 Things I Always Want to Do with You Forever" is the perfect way to say, "You're my forever."Turn your love into a masterpiece.
On Marriage
A compulsively readable, startling, and philosophically rich book about marriage, from an acclaimed critic and filmmaker A New Yorker Best Book of the Year - A Kirkus Reviews Best Nonfiction Book of the Year - A Seminary Coop Notable Book of 2023 "Baum is an erudite and entertaining guide through the landscape of marriage. . . . A fascinating exploration."--Stephanie Merritt, The Guardian "As far back as our history books go, we have no record of a time preceding marriage. Isn't that an extraordinary fact?" So writes Devorah Baum in this searching and revelatory book. Marriage, for better or for worse, is how humans have organized their world and told their story. Straight, queer, coupled, single: none live outside the remit of marriage. One might as well try to live beyond language. But when confronted with the question "What do intellectuals think of marriage?" Baum concludes that most philosophers have preferred to avoid the subject. Is marriage then an intellectual blind spot? To fill in the gaps, she draws on a wide range of cultural material, from the classical to the contemporary, while interweaving reflections on her own experiences of matrimony to both critique and celebrate marriage's many contradictions and its profound effects on us all. In doing so, she reveals how marriage has worked as a cover story for power and its abuses on the one hand, and for subversive and even utopian relational practices on the other. Entertaining, illuminating, consoling, and candid, On Marriage is an unprecedented investigation of what we are really talking about when we talk about marriage.
The Psychology of Menopause
What physical and psychological changes can I expect when going through the menopause? How can I protect my well-being during menopause? How can I ensure a good menopause experience?The Psychology of Menopause provides a useful and positive guide to understanding the psychological, social, and sexual changes that occur during and following menopause. Going beyond hot flushes and HRT, it focuses on how to enhance psychological well-being by looking at the science behind women's lived experiences of perimenopause and postmenopause. The book explores key psychological issues during this transition, such as the risk factors associated with mood and anxiety, the changing social and personal roles for women in midlife, the impact on relationships, and the reasons for brain fog.By putting women's psychological well-being at the heart of this stage of life, The Psychology of Menopause provides a much-needed examination into the psychological, social, cultural, and interpersonal aspects of the transition into and beyond menopause.
Healing the Trauma of Infidelity
Rebuild after betrayal with this trauma-informed guide--based on the powerful Gottman Method for helping couples heal from infidelity. If your partner has been unfaithful to you, you no doubt feel deeply hurt, betrayed, disoriented and confused, angry, and emotionally overwhelmed. You may have feelings of distrust toward your partner, or worry that nothing will ever be the same between you again. You aren't alone. Infidelity--whether an emotional or sexual affair--is all-too-common, and can leave you feeling broken inside. So, how can you heal the trauma of infidelity and rebuild trust with your partner? Written by a psychologist and based on the Gottman Method for couples therapy, this book outlines a powerful, trauma-informed approach to help you and your partner heal from infidelity, strengthen love and intimacy, and rebuild trust after betrayal. You'll find skills to help you cultivate a deeper bond with your partner--one that builds on friendship and shared experiences. You'll also learn to set healthy boundaries, and manage the difficult and intense emotions that can occur after infidelity. This book offers an evidence-based, three-phase approach to healing after infidelity: The Atonement Phase: Deal with the crisis of discovery and disclosure The Attunement Phase: Develop skills to address--rather than avoid--the relationship issues that contributed to infidelity and rebuild friendship The Attachment Phase: Work on physical and emotional intimacy and vulnerability Infidelity is painful and often traumatic, but it doesn't have to end or cloud your relationship forever. The powerful approach in this compassionate guide will help you and your partner make the positive changes needed to sustain a healthy connection for years to come.
A Taste for Something New
When you are young and throughout the progression of your life you have a specific taste that you like in life. As you grow mature, try new things, visit new places, and try new foods your palate starts to expand your tastes whether culture, art, people, places, etc. A Taste for Something New has to do with growth and development in relationships and how they change through your standards, expectations, and experiences in life. Sometimes even you are an acquired taste! Enjoy exploring!
A Shepherdess Beaten But Never Broken
Brace yourself for an extraordinary story that speaks to the experiences of those who have faced physical, emotional, and psychological childhood abuse and neglect. For those with dreams deferred by overwhelming challenges and obstacles, this powerful narrative of resilience and perseverance will serve as a lighthouse and inspiration to all who have lost hope. Sharing the intimate details of surviving unimaginable child abuse, which would be deemed criminal in modern times, the author exemplifies how a determined spirit can overcome the most dire circumstances. Prepare to be captivated and inspired while cheering her on as she embarks on her journey to freedom. As the author shares her most painful moments and beautiful memories, you will laugh, cry, and cheer her on as she describes how she found hope and the redemptive power of true love. Look for this story on the big screen, as it clearly tells the story of how life's darkest moments can be overshadowed when passion, resilience, and tenacity overtake fear. You will be inspired never to doubt yourself and to hold on to the dream that dwells in your soul.Follow her journey, which takes her from a dark world of cruelty into the competitive world of producing national championship purebred Dorset sheep. She is, indeed, a shepherdess beaten but never broken.
What to Do When You Get Dumped
"A book that feels like a warm hug from your best friend." -Emily Henry, #1 New York Times-bestselling author of Funny Story From the beloved mother-daughter team who brought us What to Do When I'm Gone, a poignant, funny, heartfelt, and gorgeously illustrated guide to navigating the pain and complexity of getting dumped. After Suzy Hopkins's husband of thirty years unexpectedly left her to pursue an old flame, her grief was so overwhelming that she thought her own heart might stop. How do you take the first step forward after losing such an integral part of your life? In What to Do When You Get Dumped, the mother-daughter duo of Hopkins and her New Yorker-illustrator extraordinaire daughter Hallie Bateman offer an incisive, tender, appealingly illustrated guide to "unbreaking" your heart. Using a countdown from the moment you're dumped, the book offers humor and hope as it guides readers on the journey to find new meaning and purpose in a life that's yours alone. Lighthearted, impactful, and deeply consoling, What to Do When You Get Dumped provides the wisdom to emerge from a breakup smarter, stronger, and with the unshakable knowledge that you are worthy of lasting love.
Divine Twin Flame Awakening
This book is written for those who are intrigued by twin flames, soul mates, spiritual partnerships, spiritual awakening and how to manage separation stage but aren't quite sure where to begin their exploration. A "twin flame" refers to a twin soul that is seeking self-transformation along its personal path. This self-transformation-the understanding of "Key" life lessons-is essential to the joint mission of twin souls, for the twin flames are bound together in an agreement to help mature each other's karmic evolution. In this book, I introduce possibly unfamiliar concepts such as: WHO ARE TWIN FLAMES? HOW TO RECOGNISE THEM? SIGNS OF THE KUNDALINI RISING FOR TWIN FLAMES TWIN FLAME AWAKENING: IS YOUR TWIN FLAME AWAKE YET? THE TWIN FLAME AWAKENING PROCESS STAGES CHILDHOOD TRAUMA CREATING BLOCKAGE TO YOUR DIVINE UNION SYNCHRONICITY AND SIGNS YOU MAY HAVE MET YOUR TWIN FLAME OR SPIRITUAL PARTNER SPEED UP YOUR TWIN FLAME UNION MANIFESTING TWIN FLAME TEXT MESSAGE TECHNIQUE
180 Experiences That Will Strengthen Your Marriage
180 Experiences That Will Strengthen Your Marriage" is a heartfelt guide by Dustin A. Wiggins, offering couples practical activities to deepen their bond. Written during his deployment in Afghanistan, Wiggins crafted these experiences as a testament to love and commitment. The Dating Divas praise the book, stating it "proves that happy and successful marriages are possible," and that it helps couples "reconnect, get back in the dating groove, spend quality time together, and open up." An Amazon reviewer shares, "This book has been such a blessing and couldn't have come into my life at a better time. My husband and I needed something that could help us overcome a few hurdles, to heal open wounds, and to rebuild our relationship." With 180 thoughtfully designed experiences, this book serves as a valuable resource for couples seeking to create lasting memories and strengthen their marriage.
In Search of Manhood
Men can be a troublesome and troubled breed. Trouble to themselves and trouble to the women who become embroiled in their lives.Some men stride through life blissfully unaware of how to cope with what confronts them.Or how to deal with the responsibilities that society - a concept largely of men's own making - has thrust upon them.Long cast in the role of hunter gatherer, the male of the species can be his own worst enemy according to renowned physiotherapist Peter Dornan.In Search of Manhood is the result of a lifetime's close observation of this unique and divisive creature.Dornan uses this absorbing memoir of a life lived to the full to define the problems, analyse the causes and offer solutions.He examines why men consider women to be inferior; why they perpetuate male dominance and inequality.Why do so many feel the need to be in charge, to appear invincible, to be always in the right?Dornan provides the answers in this lively account of his "journey through manhood."As a survivor of prostate cancer he helped found a national organisation to help fellow sufferers.Two life-changing experiences that compel him to ask, "Why don't men look after their health better?"An urgent question that is answered in this valuable book as Dornan presents a much-needed guide to better male health and lifestyle.