Love by Design
Redefine romance and build loving connections you yearn for with the help of this guide for couples--perfect for readers of 8 Rules of Love and the Love Prescription. Grounded in two decades of original research and work with couples from around the world, Love by Design introduces a groundbreaking new foundation for love: The Emergent Love Model. As Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh knows, successful partnerships do not thrive on love, at least as we know it. Instead of chasing our butterflies, we need to cultivate six core relational ingredients that make it possible for love to emerge: -Attraction: What do you like and value about each other? -Respect: How do you keep each other's needs and priorities in mind? -Trust: Do you know that you will show up for each other consistently? -Compassion: Can you honor the other's emotional experience without making it about you? -Shared vision: Where are you committed to going together? -Loving behaviors: How do you show your partner they're special to you? Offering dozens of exercises and reflection prompts, this groundbreaking book gives readers a new foundation for a thriving, lasting coupledom.
Crushmore
NATIONAL BESTSELLER In the debut essay collection from the hosts of the hit podcast Podcrushed, Penn Badgley, Sophie Ansari, and Nava Kavelin explore what it means to come of age at every stage of our lives. Known for spotlighting your favorite artists' tween stories of self-discovery on their podcast, Penn, Sophie, and Nava turn inward to share their own experiences for the first time. Penn, a twelve-year-old, Discman-toting introvert, starts in the solitude of his only-child household where he danced like no one was watching (because no one was watching) before embarking on a neon-lit journey to Hollywood. Sophie takes us to her middle school in Beijing where she had to ward off rumors of a boob job, and to the moment loosening her chokehold on love brought her husband straight into her living room. Nava traces the emotional aftershocks of losing her mother and guides us through the whimsical world of an imaginationship, where nothing is ever as it seems. With compassion, humor, and insight, Crushmore charts the often cringey, sometimes luminous path from adolescence to adulthood. Together, these essays remind us that we can find healing--and even inspiration--from our awkward adolescent selves long after we thought we left them behind.
BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE 1000 Spiritual Questions to Ask Myself Before I Die
Secrets to Surviving Infidelity
Now completely updated! A compassionate guide to help couples survive infidelity and improve their relationship.When a couple's trust is shattered by infidelity, healing may seem beyond reach--but it doesn't have to be. This second edition of Secrets to Surviving Infidelity offers a compassionate and practical roadmap toward recovery and reconnection. Through humane insights and step-by-step strategies, Dr. Scott Haltzman, a psychiatrist and marriage educator, shares how to overcome the pain of betrayal and strengthen relationships in its wake. Whether you are the wronged partner, the one who strayed, or a therapist navigating your clients' infidelity, this book serves as an essential guide to the intricacies of infidelity--from the initial shock and heartache to the complex process of rebuilding trust. This second edition includes new information on: - The evolving definitions of marriage and commitment, with updated language to include those who are in unmarried, committed relationships.- Relationship challenges unique to the LGBTQ+ community - Gender and sex issues - The neuroscience of infidelity and "flame addiction" - Strategies for conflict managementDr. Haltzman combines real-life stories with robust research to illuminate the types of infidelity, the varied motivations behind affairs, and their impacts on relationships. He provides clear guidance on how to end an affair, how to cope with feelings of anger and grief, and how to foster forgiveness and healing. This book can also serve as a preventive tool to explore and strengthen bonds to make relationships affair-resistant. Secrets to Surviving Infidelity is a lifeline for those desperate to recover and safeguard their relationships.
Monogamaybe?
One spouse, two-point-four kids, a golden retriever and a white picket fence. That's the goal, right? For some people that sounds perfect. For others, the monogamous 'default' feels restrictive and uncomfortable, and a more flexible approach allows them to flourish. In this honest, open guide, Sarah Stroh shares her experiences coming to terms with being non-monogamous and offers ways to explore relationship structures outside the status quo. With advice on handling shame and stigma, understanding jealousy in yourself and your partners, and navigating long-term commitment, this book shows you how to develop healthy open relationships that support everyone involved. Whether you're experienced with non-monogamy or simply poly-curious, this book will help you find relationship structures that work for you, and embrace life outside the box.
Marriage after Retirement
"Marriage After Retirement: 25 Questions to Ask and Answer Before You Marry" isn't just a book-it's your indispensable companion as you embark on the journey of marriage in your golden years. Authored by Amy Rose Herrick, ChFC, this insightful guide is your roadmap to navigating the complexities of marriage after retirement, ensuring a foundation that's as solid as it is fulfilling.Thoughtfully organized into nine chapters, each one carefully crafted to address crucial aspects of marital life, this book empowers you and your partner to delve deeper, discuss openly, and understand each other on a profound level to support you in your desire for a fulfilling, life long, successful marriage.Organized into nine thoughtfully curated chapters, each addressing crucial aspects of marital life, this book empowers couples to explore, discuss, and understand each other on a deeper level."Marriage After Retirement" is not just a book; it's a roadmap for building a strong and enduring partnership in your senior years. Whether you're considering a first marriage, remarriage or have already made the commitment, this book equips you with the tools and insights to navigate the joys and challenges of married life after retirement with confidence and clarity.Don't miss out on this opportunity to transform your life! Secure your copy now and gain access to the free audio version using the link provided within. Start your journey towards positive change today!
No Fault
A MOST ANTICIPATED BOOK OF 2025: Vogue, Vulture, Bustle, Lit Hub "Enigmatic, opalescent, so precise." --Jia Tolentino An intimate and candid account of one of the most romantic and revolutionary of relationships: divorce Divorce was everything for Haley Mlotek. As a child, she listened to her twice-divorced grandmother tell stories about her "husbands." As a pre-teen, she answered the phones for her mother's mediation and marriage counseling practice and typed out the paperwork for couples in the process of leaving each other. She grew up with the sense that divorce was an outcome to both resist and desire, an ordeal that promised something better on the other side of something bad. But when she herself went on to marry--and then divorce--the man she had been with for twelve years, suddenly, she had to reconsider her generation's inherited understanding of the institution. Deftly combining her personal story with wry, searching social and literary exploration, No Fault is a deeply felt and radiant account of 21st century divorce--the remarkably common and seemingly singular experience, and what it reveals about our society and our desires for family, love, and friendship. Mlotek asks profound questions about what divorce should be, who it is for, and why the institution of marriage maintains its power, all while charting a poignant and cathartic journey away from her own marriage towards an unknown future. Brilliant, funny, and unflinchingly honest, No Fault is a kaleidoscopic look at marriage, secrets, ambitions, and what it means to love and live with uncertainty, betrayal, and hope.
Knowing Your Lesbian Life Partner
"Knowing Your Lesbian Life Partner: 25 Questions to Ask and Answer for Lesbian Couples in Their First Long-Term Relationship" is not just another book-it is your indispensable guide to laying the foundation for a love that lasts.This insightful masterpiece provides more than just advice; it is your roadmap to navigating the complexities of your first long-term relationship with grace and understanding.Structured into nine enlightening chapters, each one meticulously crafted to address essential aspects of lesbian relationships, this book is your key to unlocking deeper connections and fostering enduring intimacy for a successful, supportive, and enduring marriage."Knowing Your Lesbian Life Partner" is not just a book; it is a tool for building a strong and enduring partnership.Whether you are embarking on your first long-term relationship or seeking to deepen an existing one, this book empowers you to ask the right questions and embark on a journey of love, growth, and mutual understanding together.Do not miss this opportunity to transform your life!Secure your copy now and gain access to the free audio version using the link provided within.
Mother-Daughter Book Club Guide
Mother-Daughter Book Club Made Easy! Build community and connection while bonding over books! Each guide includes: A curated selection of engaging books in several genres: historical fiction, contemporary, fantasy, nonfiction, classic, & graphic novels Discussion questions to spark meaningful conversationSnack and activity ideas to enhance the experienceFun facts & planning sheets for easy, stress-free book club prep! Perfect for book-loving moms who want to share their love of reading with their daughters-and could use some help! Titles Included: The True Confessions of Charlotte Doyle by Avi Inside Out and Back Again by Thanhhá LaiOut of My Mind by Sharon M. DraperThree Times Lucky by Sheila TurnageSmile by Raina TelgemeierPrincess Academy by Shannon HaleWhere the Mountain Meets the Moon by Grace Lin Keeper of the Lost Cities by Shannon Messenger Anne of Green Gables by L. M. Montgomery Bridge to Terabithia by Katherine PatersonI am Malala: How One Girl Stood Up for Education and Changed the World by Malala Yousafzai Yummy: A History of Desserts by Victoria Elliott
Vows
From the bestselling author of Home Comforts comes the "timely" (The New Yorker), "fascinating, and morally serious," (The Wall Street Journal) story of our wedding vows--what they mean and why they still matter. In the West, marrying is so thoroughly identified with ceremonial promises that "taking vows" is a synonym for getting married. So, it's a surprise to realize that this custom is actually a historical and anthropological oddity. Most of the world, for most of history, married without making promises. And there's a reason for that. Marriage by vow presupposes free choice, and free choice makes a love-match possible. It is a very modern arrangement. Vows is both a moving memoir of two marriages and an "illuminating" (Publishers Weekly, starred review) meditation on marriage itself. Cheryl Mendelson tackles the sociology of commitment through our most traditional promises and shows why they endure. In considering the kind of marriage these vows entail, she helps answer some of life's most urgent and personal questions: Could I, would I, or should I make these promises to someone? Using history and literature, the book describes the parameters of the behavior that traditional vows promise and, in doing so, answers a whole series of other questions: Why did wedding-by-vow arise only in the West? Why are they recited in weddings around the world today? Why have these vows lasted for nearly a thousand years? Why does the kind of marriage promised in the vows survive?
40 Things I Want to Do with You Forever
The Ultimate Gift for Couples: A Celebration of Love, Laughter, and Lifelong MemoriesImagine a book that feels like a love letter-a beautifully crafted, cool, full-color keepsake that turns shared moments into unforgettable adventures. "40 Things I Always Want to Do with You Forever" is an invitation to deepen your connection, nurture your love, and create the kind of memories that will make your hearts race for years to come.Inside these pages, you'll find 40 meaningful plans designed to bring you closer, whether it's simple joys like sharing a sunset or spontaneous getaways to explore new horizons. Every idea is infused with the magic of togetherness, making this book the ultimate toolkit for love, connection, and laughter.Why this book will melt your heart: Romantic Inspiration: Discover ideas for date nights, adventures, and cozy moments you'll cherish forever.Timeless Design: With its stunning full-color pages and elegant layout, it's as beautiful as the love it celebrates.Made for Gifting: Perfect for anniversaries, Valentine's Day, weddings, birthdays, or just to say, "I love you."This isn't just a gift-it's a promise. A promise to dream together, laugh together, and always find time for one another, no matter where life takes you.Whether you're celebrating years of love or sparking something new, "40 Things I Always Want to Do with You Forever" is the perfect way to say, "You're my forever."Turn your love into a masterpiece.
On Marriage
A compulsively readable, startling, and philosophically rich book about marriage, from an acclaimed critic and filmmaker A New Yorker Best Book of the Year - A Kirkus Reviews Best Nonfiction Book of the Year - A Seminary Coop Notable Book of 2023 "Baum is an erudite and entertaining guide through the landscape of marriage. . . . A fascinating exploration."--Stephanie Merritt, The Guardian "As far back as our history books go, we have no record of a time preceding marriage. Isn't that an extraordinary fact?" So writes Devorah Baum in this searching and revelatory book. Marriage, for better or for worse, is how humans have organized their world and told their story. Straight, queer, coupled, single: none live outside the remit of marriage. One might as well try to live beyond language. But when confronted with the question "What do intellectuals think of marriage?" Baum concludes that most philosophers have preferred to avoid the subject. Is marriage then an intellectual blind spot? To fill in the gaps, she draws on a wide range of cultural material, from the classical to the contemporary, while interweaving reflections on her own experiences of matrimony to both critique and celebrate marriage's many contradictions and its profound effects on us all. In doing so, she reveals how marriage has worked as a cover story for power and its abuses on the one hand, and for subversive and even utopian relational practices on the other. Entertaining, illuminating, consoling, and candid, On Marriage is an unprecedented investigation of what we are really talking about when we talk about marriage.
The Psychology of Menopause
What physical and psychological changes can I expect when going through the menopause? How can I protect my well-being during menopause? How can I ensure a good menopause experience?The Psychology of Menopause provides a useful and positive guide to understanding the psychological, social, and sexual changes that occur during and following menopause. Going beyond hot flushes and HRT, it focuses on how to enhance psychological well-being by looking at the science behind women's lived experiences of perimenopause and postmenopause. The book explores key psychological issues during this transition, such as the risk factors associated with mood and anxiety, the changing social and personal roles for women in midlife, the impact on relationships, and the reasons for brain fog.By putting women's psychological well-being at the heart of this stage of life, The Psychology of Menopause provides a much-needed examination into the psychological, social, cultural, and interpersonal aspects of the transition into and beyond menopause.
Healing the Trauma of Infidelity
Rebuild after betrayal with this trauma-informed guide--based on the powerful Gottman Method for helping couples heal from infidelity. If your partner has been unfaithful to you, you no doubt feel deeply hurt, betrayed, disoriented and confused, angry, and emotionally overwhelmed. You may have feelings of distrust toward your partner, or worry that nothing will ever be the same between you again. You aren't alone. Infidelity--whether an emotional or sexual affair--is all-too-common, and can leave you feeling broken inside. So, how can you heal the trauma of infidelity and rebuild trust with your partner? Written by a psychologist and based on the Gottman Method for couples therapy, this book outlines a powerful, trauma-informed approach to help you and your partner heal from infidelity, strengthen love and intimacy, and rebuild trust after betrayal. You'll find skills to help you cultivate a deeper bond with your partner--one that builds on friendship and shared experiences. You'll also learn to set healthy boundaries, and manage the difficult and intense emotions that can occur after infidelity. This book offers an evidence-based, three-phase approach to healing after infidelity: The Atonement Phase: Deal with the crisis of discovery and disclosure The Attunement Phase: Develop skills to address--rather than avoid--the relationship issues that contributed to infidelity and rebuild friendship The Attachment Phase: Work on physical and emotional intimacy and vulnerability Infidelity is painful and often traumatic, but it doesn't have to end or cloud your relationship forever. The powerful approach in this compassionate guide will help you and your partner make the positive changes needed to sustain a healthy connection for years to come.
